The holidays are pure bliss to the note-card obsessed. Christmas cards, thank you notes for all of the gifts you received (yes, even the ones you took back or regifted), the smell of the adhesive on the back of postage stamps. Am I the only one who notices the stamp smell? Okay, yeah, probably.
The holidays are also such a great time to reflect on who you are and the people who you have helped you along the way. A priest at my church once said we often thank people for what they do. How often do we thank people for who they are? I don't think people recognize thier own best qualities until someone else points them out. Ask them what their problem areas are (if you're brave enough), and most people could give you a laundry list.
So when you're at a loss for what to say in your thank you notes, try pointing out the person's qualities you enjoy or admire. Or better yet, just drop that person a line for the sole purpose of thanking them for who they are. And take a whiff of that stamp while you're at it. Just so I won't be the only one anymore.
The holidays are also such a great time to reflect on who you are and the people who you have helped you along the way. A priest at my church once said we often thank people for what they do. How often do we thank people for who they are? I don't think people recognize thier own best qualities until someone else points them out. Ask them what their problem areas are (if you're brave enough), and most people could give you a laundry list.
So when you're at a loss for what to say in your thank you notes, try pointing out the person's qualities you enjoy or admire. Or better yet, just drop that person a line for the sole purpose of thanking them for who they are. And take a whiff of that stamp while you're at it. Just so I won't be the only one anymore.
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