Dusting off the cobwebs

In the few years since I let my note-card side-business fade away, I haven't had much need for this space. Matter of fact, I wasn't sure it was still here with the website gone and the email address deactivated. But through the wonder of of the Internet and the unlimited server space of Google, here it is.

Constantly curious but often unmotivated, I've taken several free online courses on various topics, and even managed to complete two. I recently started one from author, speaker and all-around idea font Seth Godin. This time, it wasn't free but it fascinated me and I'm a huge fan of how Seth views work and how work should be.

I'm telling you this because as part of this course, I need a public (I think my sister still reads this) space to outline my thoughts in response to Seth's prompts.

For the next few weeks, I'll be outlining who I think I am as an individual in the freelancer economy. And even though I am not a freelancer nor do I think I have the huzpah to make a go at it right now, I do feel we all need to understand what we want from our careers. Once we understand that, we can begin the unrelenting search to get there, within our current position, in a different position or even (gulp) as our own boss.

I appreciate your comments, thoughts and your own answers (thanks, sis!) as I work through this course. If you'd like to join me, here's the link. If you sign up in April, it's $30 off.

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